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Kids Please Sleep!!

One of the biggest issues with parenting in the early stages tends to be about the subject of sleep. If your child’s not sleeping then you don’t get to either, most of the time.

Ok this is an intense subject; there are many how’s and how nots regarding what to do for the best, taking into consideration the fact that every child is different.

Why is my child not sleeping and what can I do to get them to sleep?
Let’s start from when they are babies.

Few babies sleep through the night right away. For the first few months, they tend to sleep intermittently for roughly about 12 to 18 hours a day. By the time they reach 9 months, a sleeping pattern has usually developed even though that might only be about 5-6 hours straight.

This is the time when it’s sensible to put them to bed when they are sleepy (not sound asleep) to help them to fall asleep by themselves, even if they wake up at night. Toddlers and pre-schoolers need 11-14 hours of sleep and naps every 24 hours. So we form routi…

Children's Imagination Is Important. Why We Should Be Encouraging Its Development!

Children are the most successful in using their imagination. Just like when they play-act, where they pretend to have attitudes or feelings that they don’t really have..the imagination kicks in and suddenly there’s a scenario where they’ve got their toys or an item of any description with them, they possibly even assume a character, some children even turn themselves into aeroplanes, machines or robots..the list is endless, just like imagination. The scene actually comes to life in their eyes; where that doll or toy is literally having a real experience, and the child is sharing that experience too.

To a child, there is no middle ground, it’s either black or white and literal. Things are either right or wrong, good or bad, cool or not cool, funny or not funny, nice or not nice. Obviously, that changes over time, and it’s not easy to pinpoint exactly when the change takes place but it’s usually around the age of 5, that’s when they start reasoning emotionally too.

There are times …